Unpretentious Me

Any man can be a Father, but it takes someone special to be a Dad. - Unknown 

Dad, I just wanted you to know that I feel so lucky to have you as my dad. Even though I am no longer that cuddly little girl you used to have, I will always be your ‘litte’ girl! I hope I make you feel proud over these years and I try my best to never let you down. So, just relax and enjoy your day. May God bless you and in His care keeps. I LOVE U so much Dad…mmuackksss! XOXO…

P/S : This Father’s Day greetings also goes to STP and all the Fathers out there!

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On this Mother’s Day, I would like to wish all the mothers’ a Happy Mother’s Day, so the same towards my beloved mum. I dedicated this song, ‘Because You Loved Me‘ by Celine Dion especially for her! 

For all those times you stood by me
For all the truth that you made me see
For all the joy you brought to my life
For all the wrong that you made right
For every dream you made come true
For all the love I found in you
I’ll be forever thankful baby
You’re the one who held me up
Never let me fall
You’re the one who saw me through through it all 

Cho :  You were my strength when I was weak
           You were my voice when I couldn’t speak
           You were my eyes when I couldn’t see
           You saw the best there was in me
           Lifted me up when I couldn’t reach
           You gave me faith coz you believed
           Im everything I am
           Because you loved me

You gave me wings and made me fly
You touched my hand I could touch the sky
I lost my faith, you gave it back to me
You said no star was out of reach
You stood by me and I stood tall
I had your love I had it all
Im grateful for each day you gave me
Maybe I dont know that much
But I know this much is true
I was blessed because I was loved by you

You were always there for me
The tender wind that carried me
A light in the dark shining your love into my life
You’ve been my inspiration
Through the lies you were the truth
My world is a better place because of you

Im everything I am
Because you loved me

~ Wishing you a day, as wonderful as you are... ~
from your cute & naughty DauGHter…

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Mother’s Day falls on 11th May this year! I know that this is a bit too early but I would like to share with all of you a touching story about a mother’s love to his son.

My mom only had one eye. I hated her… She was such an embarrassment. She cooked for students & teachers to support the family. There was this one day during elementary school where my mom came to
Say hello to me. I was so embarrassed.

How could she do this to me? I ignored her, threw her a hateful look and ran out. The next day at school one of my classmates said, ‘EEEE, your mom only has one eye!‘

I wanted to bury myself. I also wanted my mom to just disappear. I confronted her that day and said, ‘If you’re only goanna make me a Laughing stock, why don’t you just die?‘

My mom did not respond…I didn’t even stop to think for a second about what I had said, because I was full of anger. I was oblivious to her feelings. I wanted out of that house, and have nothing to do with her. So I studied real hard , got a chance to go abroad to study.

Then, I got married. I bought a house of my own. I had kids of my own. I was happy with my life, my kids and the comforts, Then one day, my Mother came to visit me. She hadn’t seen me in years and she didn’t even meet her Grandchildren.

When she stood by the door, my children laughed at her, and I yelled at Her for coming over uninvited. I screamed at her, ‘How dare you come to my house and scare my Children! GET OUT OF HERE! NOW!!!‘

And to this, my mother quietly answered, ‘Oh, I’m so sorry. I may have gotten the wrong address.’ And she disappeared out of sight.

One day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house. So I lied to my wife that I was going on a  business trip. After the reunion, I went to the old shack just out of curiosity. My neighbors said that she died. I did not shed a single tear. They handed me a letter that she had wanted me to have.

I think of you all the time.
I’m sorry that I came to your house and scared your children.
I was so glad when I heard you were coming for the reunion.
But I may not be able to even get out of bed to see you.
I’m sorry that I was a constant embarrassment to you
When you were growing up.

You see……..when you were very little,
You got into an accident, and lost your eye.
As a mother, I couldn’t stand watching you having to grow up
With one eye. So I gave you mine.
I was so proud of my son who was seeing a whole new world for me,
In my place, with that eye.

With all my love to you,
Your mother.

Ouch! Can you imagine the son’s reaction after reading the letter? Ohhhh…so sad…and with that, I shed my tears! Well, as owez especially when it’s something that could touch my heart

Note : Always tell someone that you love them because you never know what day Will be their last, or your own.

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Do you believe in giving the person who you used to love a second chance? It doesn’t matter who end up the relationship at the first place. What is important is whether you are willing to be with the person again after the break up.

I used to believe that once I broke up with that person, I will never look back again. I was wrong! My Best Friend always say this to me, ”once is enough“, but does it? I have to disagree with him this time as I think it is how you feel towards the person that counts. If you still love that person and you know that you still have the chance to be with him or her, then why let your ego come in between? You should fight for your love then (I know I did and the result…hehehe…as I expected ~ 29.02.08, the day that I will owez remember)!!!

Sometimes, we never realize how important that person is in our life. We got too comfortable and started to take it for granted and without us realizing, its gone!

What if they don’t want to give you a chance to be with them again? Well, try hard to win their heart and trust. Don’t stop if you fail on the first try. But if your attempt to get back with them fails again and again, then you should know it’s time to really let go and move on with your life

Note : If you want to get back into the relationship than do it. If you don’t want to then don’t!!! It’s the matter of whether both of you still love each other which is more important.

Written by Luke

What do normally people do when the are broken hearted? Let see now, fell in to depression, thinking about commit suicide, get wasted and turn to something else for comfort like drinking and drugs etc,etc,etc..

Why don’t you do this instead, try to find all your old friends and make new ones. Go out and be seen everyway. Don’t care about your ex-lover and what he/she may think. Do you know that going shopping when you are suffering from a broken heart really helps? No wonder the girls love doing it when they are sad or stress out. Getting something for yourself really does make you feel good. I know because I’ve done it when I had my heart broken. I bought myself new clothes and accessories myself with new watches and other stuff. Oh man! How good I feel with everything on. Now that you are single again, you would have more money to spend on yourself. So pamper yourself people..

I know it won’t be easy in the earlier stages because you still have the hearts for that person and you go wondering what went wrong and start blaming yourself for everything that has happened. Don’t worry about what went wrong and whose fault it was, it’s basically over. The more you try to patch things up, the more worse it’s going to be. So might as well just leave it like that, drop everything that you have put in to that relationship and start fresh.

There is this saying that goes like this, ‘don’t go trying to find the right one because you won’t find him/her, instead when the right one comes along, you will know it straight from your heart’. So cheer up and do yourself a big favor, you might never know that the next one is the ‘ONE’ for you!

Note : Thanks for the tips Luke, guess I should do the same too!!! I keep on blaming myself for things that happened. I shouldn’t have to and yup, it’s time to move on and take things as it is…